Pick Up Stylelife Tips By Neil Strauss
1. Don't wait to approach her until she's alone. Even if she likes you, her friends will soon drag her away.
2. Don't stare at her for more than three seconds before approaching. Hesitate, and you'll either creep her out or psyche yourself out.
3. Don't be afraid to approach her just because there are men in the group. Often, you'll discover that she's with family, friends, or co-workers.
4. Never open a conversation by apologizing. Phrases like “Excuse me… “ “Pardon me… “ and “I'm sorry, but… “ make you sound like a beggar.
5. Don't hit on her or give her a generic compliment. Instead, start a conversation with an entertaining anecdote or question, such as asking the group to suggest names for a three-legged cat or a store that sells 70's memorabilia. It may sound corny, but everyone loves to give their opinion.
6. Never, ever buy her a drink. You shouldn't have to pay for her attention.
7. Don't touch or grab her right away. If she touches you, say, with a smile, “Hey now, hands off the merchandise.”
8. Don't lean in or hover over her. Stand up straight and, if the music's too loud or she's seated, simply speak up.
9. Don't ask her what her name is, what she does for a living, or where she's from. She's bored of talking about the same things with every new guy she meets.
10. Don't focus all your attention on her when she's with other people. If you win her friends over, you'll win her.
